Anxiety nearly killed the biggest career in modern Hollywood before it started, and walking away from it turned out to be the harder part.
Part of The Avengers featuring Robert Downey Jr., Chris Hemsworth, Scarlett Johansson, Mark Ruffalo, and Jeremy Renner.
Panic attacks on set convinced him a nine-film Marvel deal would end his career. He turned down Captain America multiple times, went to therapy for the first time in his life, and heard he was making decisions from fear. Before the shield, his resume was self-described "really terrible": Not Another Teen Movie, a cancelled TV show, Fantastic Four films that proved he could wear spandex without proving anyone should care. He signed for $300,000. By Endgame, his MCU films had grossed $11.4 billion. The actor who needed therapy to say yes had become the franchise.
Walking away from the shield looked like confidence. Knives Out grossed $309 million and proved he could open a non-Marvel film. Ghosted (25% on Rotten Tomatoes), Pain Hustlers, Red One ($186 million on a reported $200-plus million budget): the post-MCU cold streak was real.
Materialists changed the math. A $20 million A24 rom-com that hit $108 million worldwide, making it the studio's third-highest-grossing film. He listed his Hollywood Hills house for $7 million and moved back to Massachusetts, which reads less like retreat and more like a guy who finally stopped performing.
An accidental nude leak in September 2020 should have been a disaster. He posted a screen recording that briefly showed his camera roll, and instead of the usual internet pile-on, fans rallied to protect his privacy. That kind of goodwill doesn't come from a publicist.
He proposed to Portuguese actress Alba Baptista by learning to say "Will you marry me?" in her language. Their Cape Cod wedding required guests, including Robert Downey Jr. and Scarlett Johansson, to sign NDAs and surrender their phones. A second ceremony followed in Portugal. The guy who played America's most transparent soldier runs his actual life like a classified briefing.